OK, so the blog posts have been
nonexistent thin on the ground for a couple of months while I focused on some real-life issues. The assumption was that by devoting less time to social media, I could be more physically present and get stuff done. I could see it all: my house would be cleaner, I’d make lots of stuff, generate more income, and become a model of efficiency. The reality? Yeah, not so much.
A cleaner house? See, when I envisioned all the free time I would have available for housework, I failed to account for one thing: Procrastination. 85% of my domestic chores are completed when I’m actually trying to come up with a blog post, compose an email or some other online task. Take away that “thinking time” when I’m physically cleaning the house, organizing uniforms and packing lunches and the housework disappears with it. Instead I’ll fill the time by “doing stuff” which generally creates more mess.
Making more stuff? A really awful thing happened as soon as I started my blog vacation. Crafter’s Block. It seems that if I’m not blogging, reading blogs, commenting and linking to other crafting blogs, the ideas just dry up. I turn into Chandler when he had to make a Valentine’s present.
Generate more income? Well, yes and no. I have picked up more shift work, which is helpful. But shop wise, less blogging and less crafting means less traffic and fewer sales. Not cool.
So overall, the blog hiatus has not had the desired outcome. But perhaps the worst effect has been psychological. When something happens in my life, good or bad, it passes through a sort of positive mental filter as I post about it.
For example, say my eldest oversleeps and mopes about, is late for school and at pick-up time I get a meaningful look and a note home in her bookbag– This is the kind of thing that leaves me stressed, frazzled, and generally sure that I’m the worst parent in Reception year. Then I tweet: “Doh! Last in the school gate again #caseofthemondays”. Then I can post to the reception year parent’s facebook page: “We were even later than XXXX (tag) today–Do you think Mrs D will give me lines or the cane?” (comment, comment, etc). And by the time I blog about it, I can reveal the full contents of the note:
“When the class changed for PE, we discovered that in her haste to get to school, A forgot to take off her pyjama bottoms before putting on her uniform. Please find enclosed. PS: she’s not the first and won’t be the last! 🙂 “
So by thinking and writing about it, I actually manage to lift my own perceptions of the event by finding the funny side. I may make someone laugh and in return I get to connect with other stressed out mums who have been there. My siblings get (another) excuse to poke fun at me, and as long as I’m posting my mom knows I’m ok.
So I’ve learned my lesson. Instead of abstaining from social media, I’ll be gradually ramping up the tweets & posts until next week and <drumroll> the Buttoneering Launch
That’s right peeps. In addition to blogging for Re-Creations Project, I’ll be bringing our awesome upcycling action to the team at Buttoneering, creating more awesome events like Wedstival 2012. So stay tuned and keep your eyes open for Tutorial Tuesdays, where I’ll be showing you how to re-create some of our awesome stuff at home!